My body protests when I strive to rest. Instead of sleep, I disconnect through the evening, read, and then watch the dark gather. I see midnight, I see one o’clock. I fall asleep after the last owl has swooped over the roof and the branches stop swaying against the windows.
The morning light dances in my kitchen as I make coffee. A whole day looms ahead, a Saturday, a day for chores and grocery shopping. I lurch around, straining to focus. I think, I’m meeting Dia in the community room at 1 to visit while she paints signs. My weary spirit lifts a bit. I always feel better when my afternoon promises time spent talking with Dia.
I waste an hour trying to remember what I need to buy at the grocery store. I have two essential choices: I can drive into Lodi to go to Sprouts, which I prefer; or I can cross the bridge to Rio Vista and patronize the local supermarket. My coffee cools as I contemplate whether to make the longer jaunt for better produce. In the end, I delay so long that distance becomes the deciding factor. The ache in my calves has quieted; I think I can probably manage the errand.
I do, but just barely. On my way into the park, I stop to chat with a cadre of the regular dog walkers. We talk about the menu for our Sunday potluck. I pull away, waggling my hand out the window. As I stop the car, a couple of vehicles pass my house going too fast. A driver waves; I wonder if he realizes that I’m struggling with four partially filled bags of groceries. The gravel spray reaches where I stand, scattering around my feet. I watch as he circles around to the park entrance. We get a lot of “looky-Lous” here; they can’t believe we live in these small, nontraditional dwellings, RVs, trailers, and tiny houses on wheels. They think we’re a freak attraction. I shake my head and go into the house.
By the time I get the food put away, it’s after twelve-thirty and I’m worried about being late. Then my phone chimes and it’s Dia, letting me know she’s not ready and will be there at 1:30. I suddenly realize that every muscle in my body has cramped so I drink some water and sit, doing nothing, for a solid thirty minutes.
I get to the community room before Dia and stash some drinks that I’ve bought for the pot-luck in the park’s refrigerator. I stand in the center of the dusty space for few minutes, studying the books that we collected three years ago for a lending library that nobody has used since before the pandemic. I shiver in the chilly air and think about turning on the heat. My calves shudder. I go back outside into the warm sunshine just as Dia crosses the parking lot. My spirit relaxes. If life awards you just a handful of good friends, I hope that one of them has a radiant smile and a heart of gold, like my friend Dia.
It’s the ninth day of the one-hundred and twelfth month of My Year Without Complaining. Life continues.