Ms. iris: I did not complain on 01/01/14! I almost complained about something today (someone failing to return my call) but I thought about this blog, and took my tone down. I’m learning NVC (Nonviolent Communication). This method of communication, founded by Marshall Rosenberg, deals in observable facts, expressed feelings, identified needs, and requests. So…”You said you were going to return my call and didn’t. I am a bit worried, because I need to make sure this situation gets resolved. Could you please call me at your first opportunity?” It takes longer than barking, but man, it feels soooo much better — surprisingly!
I continue to be amazed with your ability actually eat oatmeal which you hate and I hate as well. I’m also amazed at how everyone I know does all of these things for their health and I can’t do that. Perhaps it’s because I’ve always been a brat?
So this is day 2. Any complaining yesterday?
Iris
Ms. iris: I did not complain on 01/01/14! I almost complained about something today (someone failing to return my call) but I thought about this blog, and took my tone down. I’m learning NVC (Nonviolent Communication). This method of communication, founded by Marshall Rosenberg, deals in observable facts, expressed feelings, identified needs, and requests. So…”You said you were going to return my call and didn’t. I am a bit worried, because I need to make sure this situation gets resolved. Could you please call me at your first opportunity?” It takes longer than barking, but man, it feels soooo much better — surprisingly!
Thanks for asking!
I always love to read anything you write, but I am complaining about you not complaining! What fun can we have if we can’t gripe about people!?
You can gripe! I will smile serenely and buy you another cup of coffee at Ginger Sue’s!
I can tell already I am going to enjoy this experience.
I continue to be amazed with your ability actually eat oatmeal which you hate and I hate as well. I’m also amazed at how everyone I know does all of these things for their health and I can’t do that. Perhaps it’s because I’ve always been a brat?
I enjoyed reading your perspective. I need to read from a position if gratitude. Thank you!
It keeps me level. Thank you.