05 November 2014

I cannot share my own words with you today, about the death of my favorite curmudgeon. Oh, I have words: but they remain mixed with the salt of a thousand unshed tears.  I hope to sift them down to a page for  my Saturday Musing; because a man so loved and so unique; a man who gave me so much and claimed for himself so little, deserves to be honored only after reflection.

But for today, this day when I ache but at least I feel; when I mourn but at least I have loved, and therefore, have lost something worthy of mourning; on this day, I can only offer someone else’s words, in the hopes that they will hold the place until I can refine my own.

“Away”

I cannot say, and I will not say
That he is dead–. He is just away!

With a cheery smile, and a wave of the hand
He has wandered into an unknown land,

And left us dreaming how very fair
It needs must be, since he lingers there.

And you– O you, who the wildest yearn
For the old-time step and the glad return–,

Think of him faring on, as dear
In the love of There as the love of Here;

And loyal still, as he gave the blows
Of his warrior-strength to his country’s foes–.

Mild and gentle, as he was brave–,
When the sweetest love of his life he gave

To simple things–: Where the violets grew
Blue as the eyes they were likened to,

The touches of his hands have strayed
As reverently as his lips have prayed:

When the little brown thrush that harshly chirred
Was dear to him as the mocking-bird;

And he pitied as much as a man in pain
A writhing honey-bee wet with rain–.

Think of him still as the same, I say:
He is not dead– he is just away!

In Memory:
Jabez Jackson MacLaughlin
07/27/1929 – 11/05/2014
“My favorite curmudgeon”

8 thoughts on “05 November 2014

  1. Phil Carrott

    I am so sorry to hear of Jabez’s passing, that seemed almost unreal it was so quick. Our thoughts are with you and his family.

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  2. Susan Ryan-Haupt

    Such sad news to convey the loss of a treasure like your father in law. You and all who mourn him will be in my thoughts and prayers. I love your analogy of just being “away”.

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  3. Cindy Cieplik

    My deepest sympathy Corinne. You must be holding all of your visits and interactions over the past weeks with intense love and gratitude. Your love in action is something to behold!

    From Kahlil Gibran~

    the reality of life itself
    whose beginning is not in the womb
    and whose ending is not in the grave

    for the years that pass
    are naught but a moment
    in eternal life
    and the world of matter
    and all in it
    is but a dream

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