Do you learn from your children? I do. My biological son, my “second” children, my shared children. They teach me so much.
Today I remember a lesson that my son brought home from elementary school. “Do the hardest thing first,” he would say. “Get it over with. Then do what you want.”
I procrastinate on those challenging tasks. I look for work-arounds; I let them slide. I’ve gotten myself into some mighty jams with that ostrich way of life. I’ve been bailed out many times.
I hear the dog barking in the back yard. She wants inside; she wants attention. On the second floor, in my hide-away, I sit and listen. I’m making a Come to Jesus list for myself of all those hardest things. They seem too formidable to tackle.
But I’m not complaining. I’ll hitch up my big-girl britches, take the help as it’s offered but strain to wean myself from it. I might even learn how to walk the dog without falling down.
It’s the sixth day of the twenty-sixth month of My Year Without Complaining. All systems go. Fasten your harness. Life continues.