I did not start this blog to debate or lament political views or happenings. In blogging here, I strive to hold myself accountable for a decision which I made in the fall of 2013 after the death of my mother-in-law. I decided that I would spend 2014 attempting to matriculate through each day without voicing complaint.
I did not make it through that year, so I’ve continued. November 2016 marks the thirty-fifth month since I began my journey. Along the way, I’ve formed opinions about what constitutes complaint, including words both direct and oblique; facial expressions; and actions. The bark, the eyebrow, and the shrug. The litany of that which I endure. Even the long period of silence punctuated by nothing more than a barely audible sigh.
Last night, I met a man who described himself as a Libertarian. I laughed. I’ve heard that line from others. He put his hand on my arm and said, “No, really. Really. Not just a Republican in disguise, but a true Libertarian.” I listened as he described his views, while the music of the band played and the enlightened few stared at the television screen watching what we’d predicted come to pass.
After a few minutes, the man put down his wine glass and we parted company. I went into the night and home to let my little dog outside.
But this is not a political blog, nor shall I fall into the trap of sideways complaint. I sat down at my keyboard to share this: a glimpse at my America, the loveliness of human kind which never fails to give me hope.
I stood on line for two and a half hours to vote yesterday. On my arrival, I saw that no provision had been made for handicapped parking or ballot-casting. I called the voter protection hotline. Wihin a half hour, while I still waited, moving slowly towards the door, election judges came to begin the process of rectifying the Election Board’s oversight, though not before I saw two cars pull away with disappointed voters. Several hours later, I learned that more adjustments had been made, and that voting continued to be heavy at that polling place throughout the evening.
While I stood online, I snapped several photographs. Scrolling through them in the darkness of my Central Standard bedroom this morning, I paused at a particular shot of the group of people who had navigated the steep hill to join the line after I had been waiting for close to an hour. I could not help but smile. I found my kinship in that photograph. I stared at it for a long long time. Then I struggled out of bed and went downstairs to start my day.
It’s the ninth day of the thirty-fifth month of My Year Without Complaining. Life continues.